Sex Education Aims to Expand Our Defition of Intimacy. Does It?

By Mx. Cleo Mizrahi

Sex Education is a British show that follows Otis Milburn, the son of a sex therapist who, together with his best friend Eric and too-cool-for-school classmate Maeve, start an underground sex clinic in his school.

Teens, as usual, played by actors in their late 20's

In every new season of Sex Education, the show tries to skew more progressive by adding nuanced elements of sexual roles, taboo kinks and exploring the psychological drive that makes us all attracted, excited, and fantasize over various sex scenes denied in our realities. The show focuses intensely on representation and educating young audiences on sex. They do this by including Queer sex scenes, fantasy roleply in the form of alien attraction, and humanizing sexual attraction with folks of trans experience and those with disabilities. But is the show able to fill the gap of Sex Education where it's not permitted? For a viewer like me growing up Orthodox Jewish, or even one that is heteronormative but has experienced shame for their "alternative" encouters not abiding by a puritan outlook on sex?

The ongoing changes to ensure the content is more pluralistic don't detract from the reality that cishet couples/relationships are more centered, while everyone else is an aberration. While Otis tries his best to help his schoolmates with their sexual problems, the fact remains that he is an unqualified, non-licensed version of a young Sigmund Freud or Carl Jung. A cishet white man, who is using his limited sexology research and lived experience. This is both a flaw of the show, but one that the show is aware of: In the absense of qualified sexual education, teens (or even adults) will turn to more dubious sources. Like conservative priests/imams/rabbis repressing, projecting, and writing criminalized laws, to create a culture of stigma towards the evolution of sex, sexuality, and attraction that is naturally of the world, which is beautifully is exhibited by humxns of all genders, orientations, ages, and abilites.

Three seasons in, it's clear Moordale High is filled with your typical misfits who carry a slew of problems that contemporary teens in Wales, who are coming of age, are encountering. But does exploring different sexual situations through the scope of dysfunction rather than healthy relationships serve to further the cause of sexual education, or just to dramatize the show?

I wonder how GenZ, Millenials, and GenAlpha are absorbing the streaming material. Is it benefitting their sex life, or if the screenwriters are hindering their impact by confusing their viewers with highly voaltile content? Does it place further pressure and unrealistic expectations on anyone's search for fulfilling & wholesome intimacy with another person that fits our unique selves the best?

Mx. Cleo Mizrahi (She/They/Yenta) is an international award winning filmmaker, writer & producer, with films such as “Mx.Enigma” “Bubby & Them” and related documentaries & anthologies intersecting religion, queerness & neglected communities. They’re the founder of Queer Media Network, a association of LGBTQ employees in the entertainment industry advancing their representation and narratives of their communities. They binge watch tv 📺like Torah, never ending, always drama & the narrators won’t shut up.